• Lars Boeck

    Hallo mijn naam is Lars. Leuk dat je meer van me wilt weten. Ik kijk er naar uit je te ontmoeten. Zelf sta ik niet vaak in 'the spotlight". In het centrum van de belangstelling voelde ik me niet veilig. Hoe dat komt vertel ik je hieronder aan de hand van twee verhalen uit mijn jeugd.

  • Verhaal 1: Verbrand

    Met 1.5 jaar achter de rug gristte ik een pan met kokend water uit mijn moeders handen. Het kokende water kwam op mijn dunne peuterhuid die tot derde graads verbrannde. Je moeder is dégene die je beschermt tegen pijn en gevaar. Op dat moment bleek mijn moeder niet in staat mij te beschermen. Als je als kind pijn hebt dan weet je moeder raad. Een kus of een pleister maken de pijn meteen minder. Maar ook de kus en de pleister werkten niet tegen de pijn die ik had. In paniek gingen we naar het ziekenhuis. Daar moest ik een week blijven. En mijn ouders mochten niet blijven slapen. Mijn moeder liet mij in 1 dag op drie manieren in de steek. Ze wist me niet te behoeden voor de pijn van het hete water, ze wist de pijn niet weg te halen en als kers liet ze me ook nog alleen achter op een plek met vreemde mensen in witte kleding. Op die dag kreeg mijn vetrouwen in de mens een flinke deuk. Niet dat ik mijn moeder ooit iets heb verweten. Ze heeft dit nooit gewilt. Maar onderbewust leg je verbindingen. Hoe sterker de pijn des te sterker de verbinding. Bij lag er een diepe verbinding tussen mens en gevaar.

    Verhaal 2: Als je als jood begreep wat voor en in de tweede wereldoorlog gaande was, dan was je gevlucht

    Mijn vader was een kind van de oorlog. Geboren in 1940 groeide hij zijn eerste 5 levensjaren op in oorlogstijd. Hij leerde dat mensen in staat zijn elkaar allerlei gruweldaden aan te doen. Om ons tegen oorlogsgeweld te besparen waarschuwde hij ons dat je altijd moet weten wat er gaande is. Als je als Jood wist wat er gaande was dan was je wel gevlucht. Dan had je jezelf en je familie een hoop ellende kunnen besparen. Wat ik daarvan heb meegekregen is dat je moet begrijpen om veilig te zijn. En net als iedereen had ik een behoefte om me veilig te voelen. Als een dolle ging ik op zoek naar de informatie die mij veilige kon laten voelen. Maar je raad het al. Er is altijd wel iets wat ik niet begreep. En dus voelde ik me uiteindelijk nooit veilig

     

    Verhaal 3 De zoektocht

    Op mijn 14e dacht dat ze in de politiek bepaalden over oorlog en vrede. Dus ik dook als een dolle in de politiek. Niet veel later vond ik uit dat big business via belangen organisaties een hele dik vinger in de politieke pap hebben. Mijn aandacht verschoof naar big business. Hoe diep ik er ook in dook, ik kreeg nooit voldoende antwoorden om me veilig te voelen. Uitendelijk wendde ik me tot de wetenschap. Mensen die betaald worden om te weten, om te begrijpen. Eerst sociale Goegrafie met een minor Sociologie. Helaas kreeg ik ook daar niet de antwoorden die ik zocht. Toen ik wist dat ook de wetenschap mij niet voldoende antwoorden kon geven besloot ik af te ronden met een Master Vastgoedkunde. Mijn zoektocht ging verder in NLP en Boedisme en Zen. Ik kreeg steeds meer antwoorden. En voelde me steeds veiliger.

    Verhaal 4 Goofy en aha

    Verhaal 5 Pas het model toe op mezelf

    Elke keer als ik vecht, vlucht of verstijf gedrag vertoonde ging ik op zoek naar het onderliggende gevaar. Goofy hielp daar enorm bij. Een hond wordt namelijk vervelend wanneer je uit overlevingsgedrag bevelen gaat geven. Mensen trouwens ook. Dat gevaar neutraliseerde ik en dus hoefde ik geen overlevingsgedrag meer te vertonen. Elke vecht, vlucht of verstijf reactie gebruikte ik om gevaar te vinden. In het begin was het heel veel. Ik vond gevaar dat ik niet waardevol was, niet goed genoeg. Toen ik besloot dat alleen ik recht had om mijn eigen waarde te bepalen viel ook het vecht vlucht verstijf gedrag daaromtrent weg. Het werd snel lichter om mij heen. Ik werd lichter. Als bioj een ballon gooide ik de zandzakken overboord mijn vlucht kon beginnen.

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